"Don't Appropriate, Appreciate": A Guide to Honoring Culture Beyond Borrowing
- Trishia Raymundo
- Sep 5, 2025
- 4 min read
Navigating the world of culture can be an exciting journey, but it’s one that requires thoughtfulness and respect. When we encounter traditions, music, and art from cultures different from our own, a question often arises: are we appreciating, or are we appropriating? This is a particularly important question when it comes to African and Caribbean cultures, which have a long history of their traditions being taken and commercialized without proper credit or understanding.

Cultural Exchange and the Global Village
It is often argued that in our increasingly interconnected world, cultures are meant to mix and influence one another. This perspective sees borrowing elements from other cultures as a natural and even beautiful part of human connection. When done respectfully, this exchange can lead to a deeper understanding between different groups of people. For example, a chef learning to cook a traditional Caribbean dish with guidance from a local elder is a wonderful act of cultural exchange. The chef is not only learning a recipe but also a history, a set of values, and a community's story. This type of interaction enriches all parties involved and fosters a sense of global unity.
When Appreciation Becomes Appropriation
While cultural exchange can be positive, cultural appropriation is something very different. It happens when elements of a culture are taken from their original context, stripped of their meaning, and used for personal gain, often by a dominant culture. The key difference lies in power dynamics and a lack of respect.
For African and Caribbean communities, this has a painful history. For example, a traditional hairstyle like cornrows or dreadlocks, which has deep cultural and historical significance, might be deemed "unprofessional" on a Black person in a workplace. Yet, when the same style is adopted by a non-Black celebrity, it's celebrated as "edgy" or "fashionable." This shows how the very same cultural element can be devalued when it's part of its original community, only to be commodified and praised when a dominant group takes it. This act hurts communities by erasing the originators, disrespecting their heritage, and often turning their traditions into a trend.
The crucial line is drawn when the act of borrowing does not include honoring the origin, understanding the context, or giving back to the community from which it came. It is an act of taking without giving.
The Power Dynamic at Play
A critical element that distinguishes appreciation from appropriation is the power dynamic between cultures.
Appropriation is often a one-way street, flowing from a marginalized or oppressed culture to a dominant one.
It’s a dynamic that reinforces historical inequalities. When a powerful group takes something from a less powerful group, it is often seen as an endorsement, but it also strips away the original meaning and control. For us, understanding this dynamic is essential. It's not just about what you take, but where you stand in relation to the communities you aim to serve. True appreciation is about using your platform to elevate and amplify the voices and creators of a culture, not to speak for them or profit from their traditions.
The Importance of Context and Intent
The saying "the road to hell is paved with good intentions" is relevant here. Someone might genuinely believe they are appreciating a culture by wearing a costume or using a design, but without understanding the context, their actions can still be harmful. For instance, a traditional garment might have a sacred or ritualistic purpose. Wearing it to a casual party without knowing its meaning is not only disrespectful but also undermines its cultural significance. The intent may be good, but if the impact is negative, the action is still appropriation. True appreciation requires a deeper dive into the "why" behind a cultural practice—its history, its purpose, and its place within the community.
Celebrating the Story, Not Just the Style
Cultural appreciation is about being a student, not a consumer.
It means valuing the story and the people behind a tradition as much as the tradition itself. When you learn to cook a dish, you also learn about the people who cultivated the ingredients and perfected the techniques. When you listen to a style of music, you seek to understand the social and political movements that gave it life. This approach transforms a transactional act into a meaningful connection. It’s a shift from wanting to "have" a piece of a culture to wanting to "know" a culture. For nonprofits, this is a powerful principle, allowing for partnerships and projects that are genuinely collaborative and empowering, rather than extractive.
Drawing the Line with Care
So, how can we ensure we are on the side of appreciation? It starts with a few key steps:
Educate Yourself: Before adopting something from another culture, take the time to learn about its history and meaning.
Acknowledge and Credit: Always give credit to the culture and community that created the practice, art, or tradition.
Support the Creators: If you are buying a product, try to support creators and businesses from the culture in question.
Listen to the Community: If a community is speaking out against an action, listen to their concerns and respect their wishes.
By being mindful and respectful, we can move from being simple observers to becoming true allies and partners in a beautiful global community, celebrating the cultures that make our world so vibrant.
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